Stop sacrificing yourself
It’s time to Free yourself
Next Round October 26th 2026
Come back to the one you abandoned first.
$647 early bird through Sunday, $797 after. Use code EARLYBIRD.No Fluff
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Face What's Underneath
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No Fluff • Real Transformation • Face What's Underneath •
Maybe you don’t need to become a better woman,
maybe you need to stop abandoning yourself.
You regulate yourself, you worked on communicating better, you did the childhood wound healing, you understand where everyone is coming from.
And yet.
You still say yes when every part of you means no. You still lose your words during every hard conversation. You still feel it in your chest, in the tightness between your shoulder blades, before your mind even catches up.
The pattern is not in your head, It never was. That is why the journaling has not moved it.
You are not unfixable. You are stuck, and stuck needs a different kind of solution than more understanding.
" I was surprised to realise it was one of the most intense and transformative experiences on my mental health journey to date."
A. Baker
Is this Familiar?
If you grew up being the one who read the room before you entered it. Who managed everyone's feelings before your own. Who got very good at knowing when to shrink.
I say yes. when I want to say no.
I have done the reading, the journaling, the therapy. The pattern is still there.
Being visible, taking up space, asking for what I want, it costs me enormously. I am winded afterwards. I don’t know how to do it.
I feel it in my chest and my back before my mind catches up.
I know what I want. I do not know how to want it without the fear of what it will cost me.
Somewhere deep inside me, there is a whisper that I have more. There is more to me and my life.
“I'm fearless now, I ask for what I need and say what I mean”
T. Khair
What Happens When You Join?
You do your intro call, and we have a clear CRINGE for you to work on.
The Abandonment Fix runs over six days on Telegram.
Each morning a prompt arrives, A place to look at something you have been looking away from.
You write back via email when you are ready, Walaa reads every single reflection. She responds in the group, anonymously, so your truth moves through the container without breaching your privacy.
Day two is a live colour and sound healing session. Day three is a live body release session. Both happen in the Telegram group. Both work at the level where the pattern actually lives, not the level where you have already been trying to work it.
You also have two private calls with Walaa. One at the beginning with a mini colour reading to locate where you are. One at the end to integrate what shifted.
What is included:
Six days of daily prompts
Daily voice notes from Walaa
Walaa reads your reflections and responds to the group daily — anonymously
Live colour and sound healing session on day two
Live body release session on day three
Two private 1:1 calls — intro colour reading and integration call after the 6 days.
Somatic tools and colour therapy practices
Lifetime access
Who is this with?
Hi I’m Walaa,
I spent 13 years developing the colour therapy work that sits at the centre of this method. In 2021 I published a book about it, Heal Yourself with Colour, because I needed people to understand why colour works because it’s powerful yet no one is able to harness it’s power in their day to day.
I am a certified colour therapist, IPHM accredited, with over 13 years of practice working with the body, mind, energy and emotions as a whole. Refusing the positive bypassing culture I found no lasting change in.
By creating a safe place to explore facing ourselves and our own pain with compassion and realism.
The Cringe Method is the container that puts that work into a structure built specifically for the woman who has already tried everything cognitive and still has not moved.
This is not something I found online. It is the work I built, slowly, over 13 years, because nothing else was reaching the right place.
The Real Problem is
You are not someone who lacks self-awareness on the contrary, you have more than most.
What you have is a gap between knowing and shifting, and you have been living in that gap for years. Watching yourself shrink before you speak. Watching yourself convince the other person they are right even when your body is screaming that they are not.
The cringe is not a quirk, It is shame. Shame does not live in the mind, It lives in the mid-back, in the chest, in the breath that shortens when someone asks too much of you.
It lives in the image you curate for your father, your mother, your partner, society, so they only see the version of you that will not disappoint them.
That is where the work happens. on many different levels of the body, emotions, mind and soul.
Investment
Think about the last time the pattern cost you something. A conversation you didn't have. A boundary you didn't hold. A version of yourself you didn't show up as. Now multiply that by a year. $797. One payment. The pattern has already cost more.
Early bird investment: $647
Use code EARLYBIRD at checkout. Available through October 18 2026.
Group closes at 13 participants. Doors Close 24th of October 2026
Full investment: $797
$797 · One payment · Full access ( payment plan available upon request)
Includes:
Six days of structured daily prompts on Telegram
Daily voice notes from Walaa to guide the day's work
Walaa personally reads your reflections and responds in the group each day while respecting privacy, no personal details shared.
Day 2: live colour and sound healing session on the group Telegram
Day 3: live body release session on the group Telegram
Two private 1-1 calls with Walaa — one before the six days (with a mini colour reading), one after for integration
Somatic tools and a colour therapy practice you keep using after
Lifetime access to all content, prompts, and recordings
The Six Days
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Identify
DAY ONE
We name the pattern. Where it shows up, what triggers it, what it has been costing you. You cannot shift what you have not yet seen clearly.. -
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Root
DAY TWO
We trace it back. Not to revisit pain but to understand why it made sense when it began. The pattern started as protection. Seeing that changes everything. -
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Body
DAY THREE
We find where it lives in your body. The chest. The back. The breath. This is where the somatic work begins, because the body holds what the mind has not yet processed. -
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Cost
DAY FOUR
We look honestly at what self-abandonment has taken from you. In your relationships. In your work. In your body. This day is gentle but it is honest. -
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Return
DAY FIVE
We build the picture of what becomes possible. Carefree. Brave. Trusting yourself. We work with colour because subconscious doesn't speak in analysis. It speaks in colour, image, and sensation. Cognitive work can't reach what's stored there because the mind knows exactly what to protect. Colour therapy bypasses that door. It speaks directly to what's underneath.
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Integrate
DAY SIX
Integration. You leave with a somatic practice and a colour anchor you can return to whenever the old pattern stirs. Something small and real that you can use in your daily life.
Testimonials
Somewhere deep inside you, there is a whisper. You have heard it. You have dismissed it. You have come back to it again. These six days are for that whisper."
From round one of The Cringe Challenge
“It was very empowering to do this as a group. I could feel the sincerity in everyone’s open hearts. I was deeply engrossed in addressing a painful issue involving someone who isn't conducive to a positive presence in my life, making the experience even more mystical.”
Client:
"The meditations were more powerful than I could have ever expected. Each colour brought me a deeper insight of who I am. I had trouble getting away from a toxic relationship and with the red I became more grounded and my vision changed. Each one brought me something. I am very surprised at how powerful this is."
FAQs
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They'll be recorded and available in the Telegram group. The beauty of this is that you can plug in whenever you have time during your day.
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No. This is structured deep work combined with nervous system tools and live guidance. I will be on telegram responding to questions you send through email, with real guidance and no fluff.
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You will go deeper. The difference here is that understanding becomes something you can actually feel and act from, not just name. You will also integrate
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Yes. The prompts are designed to move the pattern, not just describe it. You will leave with a somatic practice and a colour anchor you can use in daily life.